You've watched smart, sane people come unglued in the last five years.
Friends. Family. Colleagues. People you used to call when you needed a sanity check.
Some went hard left, some went hard right, some retreated into wellness, some into conspiracy, some into denial dressed up as mindfulness. The common thread is that they stopped making sense (and they don't seem to know it).
You've also noticed something quieter, and harder to admit:
The same thing is starting to happen to you.
Your old sense-making tools — news, podcasts, smart people on Twitter, institutions you used to trust — aren't holding. You can feel yourself drifting. You're more reactive than you used to be. You're tired in a way sleep doesn't fix. And the people who depend on you — your spouse, your kids, your team, your clients, your community — are looking to you for clarity.
You can't tell them. They need you to seem okay.
So who do you go to?